Saturday, December 24, 2011

Christmas Greeting!

In a year spent discovering other religious traditions so as to strengthen my own faith, I've found delight in the connections displayed throughout the world's religions - music, nature, miracles, belief in humankind, sanctity of life.  But, I've also felt blessed to come back, periodically, to the tradition that has grounded me for so many years. 

So, my Christmas gift to you, dear readers, is to share a very special piece of my faith tradition.  Each of these nativity sets was gifted to me, most by my father.  They are beautiful and such a meaningful expression of what Christmas is in my heart.  Enjoy!

































































Friday, December 23, 2011

this moment (santa)

Linking with SouleMamma and many others:

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.

Thursday, December 22, 2011

wonder

The wonder of a child...



So curious...



So simple...



So tender...



May your life be filled with wonder.

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

first snow

The first day of winter has not yet arrived, but the first snow came in a very timely way. 

Out came the mittens, snow pants, hats, and coats...

Out came Daddy with his child-like heart...

Out went the family to play in the new fallen snow...

And, in stayed the Mama where it was warm, with camera at the ready!










































:: Eating snow, clean of course - ahem
:: Snow angels, the first for the youngest
:: Snowball fight, made even better by Daddy
:: Careful preparation of snowball, just the right size, packed and ready to fly
:: Pretending to be a dog who's eating snow, because that makes it better
:: Daddy, down for the count
:: Plenty of laughter and fun

How did you enjoy your first snow?

Sunday, December 18, 2011

sunday school lesson - a home is love

You may have read that we are trying something different - home school Sunday school.  

Here's the update. WE LOVE IT!  The children look forward to this special time each Sunday morning - really! They are curious about the topics we select, they are eager to see what crafts and activities we've tied to the week's lesson, and we've enjoyed our lessons in pjs on more than one occasion.  But mostly, they love that they are learning from and with US.

During the weeks of Advent, we've become keenly aware of how this has affected each child differently.  My oldest has latched onto the meditation with which we begin each lesson.  He's an anxious child, even more so around Christmas.  He LOVES getting presents.  Meditation, breathing really, has helped him through those emotional moments.

My middle child enjoys reading aloud a Bible verse or prayer and delights in showing off her comprehension and understanding of each passage.  She has deeply realized the idea of the Christmas spirit and has shared example after example of how she has seen this spirit in friends, teachers, movies, and in strangers.  

And the youngest, at only three years of age, is captivated by stories we read.  She loves to tell us what the story means and answer, with raised hand, any questions we ask about the stories.  On more than one occasion, my husband and I have been brought to tears by the kindness and sweet thoughts uttered from the mouths of our babes.

This morning we talked about the concept of home, using a story from The 25 Days of Christmas.  How quickly these young children have connected home with love and family.  How tender was today's story of estrangement and reconnection, the power of love over anger.  How warm and perfect these moments are in our own home...


But, in true kid-fashion, we needed a fun activity to tie the lesson together.  So, we built our very own home with love...













May home be a place of peace and love for you this holiday season...

Friday, December 16, 2011

this moment (advent wreath)

Linking with SouleMamma and many others:

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

surprising students

There are some moments when my students impress me.  Mostly I simply enjoy them.  Sometimes, I am frustrated by them.  But there are those moments - those. indescribable. moments.

It's important to know that I work for a church-related college.  As one might assume, most of our students are Christian.  So, the recent proposal of a local chapter of the Secular Student Alliance might seem a little surprising.  To be sure, this group has met their resistance among the more senior faculty and staff members.  Though, they've found their allies as well.  But, at a recent meeting (the one where their approval would be determined by a mix of faculty, staff, and students) their strongest allies turned out to be their very own peers - Christian and non-Christian alike.

You can read my posts throughout this last year and know that I've struggled with my faith since moving to this area.  I identify as Christian, but have felt judged and devalued by others who call themselves Christians.  It is a strange and jolting feeling to have felt so rooted for so many years and now find myself alienated and shunned by the very people I thought I could count on. 

Perhaps this is where I identify with my students who are athiest, agnostic, and secular humanists. I decidedly do not share their belief that there is no God, but I admire their search for self, meaning, and their connection to something larger.  I wish for them a community of support within which they can ask these questions.  I wish for them space to ask questions and guidance in finding answers.

To hold, on one hand, the idea that I'm immersed in a place where righteousness exists in levels and, on the other hand, a beautiful example from students of community, and support, and invitation, and grace can strike a cord of tension.  Though my heart softened and sang as I heard student after student speak to justify our support of this organization.  It was not the seasoned, educated faculty who gave me hope of inclusion and justice.  It was not the liberally minded administrators who brought tears to my eyes and hope to my heart.

No - it was - students.  Their eloquence and wisdom and openness and acceptance and love.  Perhaps this generation understands more than I do about reaching out to those around us and creating welcome.  Perhaps they will teach us not to judge the nameless, faceless other.  Perhaps they will show us how to listen, hear, and understand.

Perhaps we ought to learn from them.  Students - they have a lot to teach us!  Are you surprised?

Monday, December 5, 2011

preparing

I remember the days when preparing for Christmas in my home was a breeze.  Each decoration had its place, the tree had exactly the ribbon and ornaments I thought were perfect, nativity scenes sat safely and securely where every eye could see.  Sigh!

So what happens when one consciously chooses to let little voices have a say in the matter?

I bet you thought I was going to say "chaos"!

On the contrary!  

However, every piece of furniture in the house was rearranged.  

 

 Each shelf and mantle were decorated and redecorated.  


 The process extended so late in the day that we ditched the healthy, homemade dinner and ordered pizza.  Of course, we plopped right down in the middle of all the bulbs, bows, music boxes, snowmen, and train tracks and enjoyed a family dinner.

It was fun to share the origin and stories of various pieces - who gifted us with this book, which was Mommy's first nativity scene, why did Daddy color his snowman black (because it was snowing in his scene and how else would you distinguish the snowman from the snow!).








The house is now prepared and little hands adore their work.  Sometimes we do work together!

Wishing you peace of mind as your hearts and minds prepare for Christmas!